British undergraduate course did not drop out of school did not finish reading

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3 min readMay 20, 2021

British undergraduate course did not drop out of school did not finish reading.

I often tell myself, “You are no longer a child, and you can’t cry when you can’t hold it up.” I don’t need other people’s advice and pity, and enlightening me is useless. You haven’t experienced what I have experienced.After more than a year back in China, I experienced the initial hesitation and confusion, and now I want to open a lot.It’s nothing but learning again. It’s no big deal. I dropped out of school last year because of my own reasons and chose to give up and go back to China.During this period, I quarreled with my parents and often cried in my room alone. I do not know how many times I fell asleep with tears.

I am very tired and tired. The three years of studying in the UK also completely made me lonely. My cheerful personality gradually became silent and I like to be in a daze alone.It has been a long time for me to calm down and plan for my future. It has been three years since I came to the UK, but I still haven’t graduated.In the past six months, I was very afraid of any text messages and phone calls. No matter friends or relatives, I would hesitate for a long time. Even after answering, I would hang up in a hurry with only a few words.

Transference is one of the methods that I have been considering for a long time. It is a kind of solution, but I am not very partial to it.Because transferring schools involves transferring credits, if I choose to transfer schools, it will take me another two or three years to graduate.The school I transfer to will also be worse than my current one. The most important thing is that I don’t have so much time to waste another two years, and I can’t justify it to my parents. After all, if I choose to transfer, the tuition and time are really too long, so I’d better tell my parents frankly.

Everyone has a bottom line, when the body and psychological pressure let us no longer breath, the tight line will break, and finally lead to their own depression.Studying abroad is nothing but this, how many people know the bitterness of studying abroad?When a person goes to a foreign place, leaves the familiar environment and friends, he must bear any grievance he encounters during the years of studying abroad. From cowardice at the beginning to maturity upon graduation, time will take away more than just time.

In addition to transfer, there is another way to directly apply for Master study, skip the undergraduate stage, apply for Master, and finally get the Master Degree back to China.It is better to apply for a Master directly than to waste time and money to study for a few more years. In Britain, there is only one year for a Master to teach, and getting a Master Degree can also give an explanation to parents and myself.Now you can apply for a Master’s degree without having graduated from the undergraduate program.

There is a sentence that impressed me deeply: “Ten years ago, the attitude of relatives and friends to you depended on your parents’ ability; ten years later, the attitude of relatives and friends to your parents depended on your ability.Parents are growing behind the shadow of the tree, when the saplings grow strong and strong, you need to feed back to help the tree to resist the cold.

Every pearl is originally a grain of sand, but not every grain of sand can become a pearl.If you want to stand out from the crowd, you need the capital to stand out from the crowd.Can not bear the blow and setbacks, can not bear the neglect and plain, it is difficult to achieve brilliant.If you want to be used and successful, you must increase your personal value and transform yourself from a grain of sand to a pearl of great value.I am overseas Jennie turtle, daily continue to share different emergency (expelled, not graduated) study abroad information.

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